In this paper we analyzed the conflict management strategies most frequently used by couples, and the relationship existing between these strategies and several socio-demographic and family-related factors. For this we used the data from the survey “Turning Points of Our Lives – Transylvania”. According to its results, the choice for either aggressive or assertive conflict management techniques can be explained both by socio-economic status and the subjective perception of living standards. We have found no differences between male and female conflict solving strategies. Those who tend to use aggressive conflict management techniques are less satisfied with their relationship, they are more lonely and feel that they are not being listened to or understood. Concerning the gender roles, those manifesting aggressive behaviour were found to have more traditional views, compared to those with assertive behaviour. Imola Antal is a lecturer at the Social Work Department, BBU (This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.). Júlia Szigeti is a psychologist at the Artemis Centre and a PhD-student at the BBU (This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.).

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